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How Meaningful Are Straight Friends in your LGBTQ life?
BAMMER47: From everything you hear and read, younger LGBTQers today are much more inclusive and non-discriminatory, as a rule, than the...
Mar 13, 20212 min read


Looking Back
STORY: Two recent developments refocused my attention on all the friends I lost to AIDS in the 80s and 90s. Recently, Peter Gorobetz, a...
Mar 1, 20202 min read


Group Travel, Rio—1990s style
STORY: 1989 to mid-1990s—My husband, Ron Oyer, had a travel business in the 1990s that catered to gay men, geographically mostly from...
Jun 8, 20181 min read
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